Nolan Eason

At 1:03AM on Friday, March 30, 2012 my first child was born - a son. We named him Nolan Eason. 21" long, 5lb 3oz. He was beautiful and perfect in every way, except that he was stillborn. As we searched for answers to his untimely death, we also searched for comfort. This blog was created as a way of working through my sorrow by trying to find something beautiful in the world each day. Hopefully, along the way it will help others to heal as well.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Name in the Sand

Today I received the following poem and pictures from our friend Shea:

I wrote your name in the sand today
Daddy asked me if it was okay
I told him gently you don't have to ask
For your mommy and daddy it seemed a simple task!
Although your stay so terribly brief
its moments like these that help the grief
forever in our hearts and minds baby Nolan!



Marshall had asked Shea to write Nolan's name in the sand while she was in Hawaii and she had gladly agreed. She said while she was on the beach doing it, her friend's son also wanted to write Nolan's name in the sand. She sent us both pictures and it brought a smile to my face. Marshall and I went to Hawaii on our honeymoon and I we both had hoped that one day we would go back. I had imagined that whenever we did go back we would be going back with our children. Since Nolan will never be able to set foot on the sand in Hawaii it was nice to see his name written in the sand there.

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